Between 60 and death. It's time to
use the money you saved up. Use it and enjoy it. Don't just keep it for those
who may have no notion of the sacrifices you made to get it. Remember there is
nothing more dangerous than a son or daughter-in-law with big ideas for your
hard-earned capital.
Warning: This is also a bad time
for investments, even if it seems wonderful or fool-proof. They only bring
problems and worries. This is a time for you to enjoy some peace and quiet.
Stop worrying about the financial
situation of your children and grandchildren, and don't feel bad spending your
money on yourself. You've taken care of them for many years, and you've taught
them what you could. You gave them an education, food, shelter, and support.
The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money.
Keep a healthy life, without great
physical effort. Do moderate exercise (like walking every day), eat well, and
get your sleep. It's easy to become sick, and it gets harder to remain healthy.
That is why you need to keep yourself in good shape and be aware of your
medical and physical needs. Keep in touch with your doctor, do tests even when
you're feeling well. Stay informed.
Always buy the best, most beautiful
items for your significant other. The key goal is to enjoy your money with your
partner. One day one of you will miss the other, and the money will not provide
any comfort then, enjoy it together.
Don't stress over the little
things. You've already overcome so much in your life. You have good memories
and bad ones, but the important thing is the present. Don't let the past drag
you down and don't let the future frighten you. Feel good in the now. Small
issues will soon be forgotten.
Regardless of age, always keep love
alive. Love your partner, love life, love your family, love your neighbor and
remember: "A man is not old as long as he has intelligence and
affection."
Be proud, both inside and out.
Don't stop going to your hair salon or barber, do your nails, go to the
dermatologist and the dentist, keep your perfumes and creams well stocked. When
you are well-maintained on the outside, it seeps in, making you feel proud and
strong.
Don’t lose sight of fashion trends
for your age, but keep your own sense of style. You’ve developed your own sense
of what looks good on you – keep it and be proud of it. It’s part of who you
are.
ALWAYS stay up-to-date. Read
newspapers, watch the news. Go online and read what people are saying. Make
sure you have an active email account and try to use some of those social
networks. You'll be surprised at what old friends you'll meet.
Respect the younger generation and
their opinions. They may not have the same ideas as you, but they are the
future and will take the world in their direction. Give advice, not criticism,
and try to remind them that yesterday's wisdom still applies today.
Never use
the phrase: “In my time.” Your time is now. As long as you’re alive, you are
part of this time.
Some people embrace their golden
years, while others become bitter and surly. Life is too short to waste your
days on the latter. Spend your time with positive, cheerful people, it'll rub
off on you and your days will seem that much better. Spending your time with
bitter people will make you feel older and harder to be around.
Do not surrender to the temptation
of living with your children or grandchildren (if you have a financial choice,
that is). Sure, being surrounded by family sounds great, but we all need our
privacy. They need theirs and you need yours. Even then, do so only if you feel
you really need the help or do not want to live by yourself
Don't abandon your hobbies. If you
don't have any, make new ones. You can travel, hike, cook, read, dance. You can
adopt a cat or a dog, grow a kitchen garden, play cards, checkers, chess,
dominoes, golf.
Try to go. Get out of the house,
meet people you haven't seen in a while, experience something new (or something
old). The important thing is to leave the house from time to time. Go to
museums, go walk through a park. Get out there.
Speak in courteous tones and try
not to complain or criticize too much unless you really need to. Try to accept
situations as they are.
Pains and discomfort go hand in
hand with getting older. Try not to dwell on them but accept them as a part of
life.
If you've been offended by someone
– forgive them. If you've offended someone-apologize. Don't drag around
resentment with you. It only serves to make you sad and bitter. It doesn't
matter who was right. Someone once said: "Holding a grudge is like taking poison
and expecting the other person to die." Don't take that poison. Forgive,
forget, and move on with your life.
Laugh. Laugh away your worries
Remember, you are one of the lucky ones. You managed to have a life, a long
one. Many never get to this age, never get to experience a full life.
My valued
friends, enjoy peaceful life at this point in your life ...
Don't worry...
be happy.