Sunday, March 29, 2026

On our way north from the Rio Grande Valley

 A cool 70º here near Dayton, TX (some 37 miles northeast of Houston) at 8:00 pm.  Cool breeze, not running AC and windows open in the trailer.  Got here about 6:00 this evening after driving 380 miles, leaving the First Methodist Church parking lot at 10:35 am after singing Easter Cantata at 9:00 am srvice and a brief breakfast served in the basement afterwards. Didn't have to unhook trailer, only have electricity hooked up - can pull out easily early in the morning.



During Cantata performance 3-29-26 at First Methodist Church in Harlingen, TX

Will download the video and post it on my YouTube page sometime in the future when am at home in Clarinda.



I took these four photos during the 20-minute warmup/rehearsal before the service started.





We are, for sure, going from Cape Girardeau on  Thursday to Clarinda, IA so we can attend Judy Heuer's funeral there on Friday, making our way to Marengo, IA and the extended family there on Saturday morning.

More later, Lynn


Saturday, March 28, 2026

Our 5 month winter stay in Texas about over - leave tomorrow

 72º here in La Feria, TX at 8:45 pm on Saturday.

Been a busy day.

Started out with a Birthday Breakfast (for Phyllis) at IHOP.

Then we drove by the First Methodist Church parkiing lot in Harlingen to see where we could park our pickkup with our travel trailer in the morning.  Had not paid any attention to the far side of the lot and where I thought we would go in didn't work, so got our bearings to come off 6th Street, make a wide circle and park heading back to the street.  Will get there before 8 am; report in our chairs for the Cantata at 8:30, starts at 9:00 am.  Then there is to be a breakfast for the choir and 7 orchestra members who will be playing.

Here are some pictures of the over-two-hour practice Wednesday evening:












Got the golf cart charged and cover put on

Got all outside windows and doors covered with
insulatiion.  Windows onto Texas room, not.

Window awning down, and though I didn't
get a picture, I coverd the Texas Room door
with steel like the window on the left of the 
door that I did not take down this winter.


Got the hot tub drained, dried and Damp Rid put in for summer
I was able to give the propane tank covers a
fresh coat of white paint.








Dish receivers packed away to use in Clarinda.

Have the trailer hooked to the pickup, chocks removed from the wheels.  Will sleep in the trailer tonight and pull out in the morning for Harlingen.
Have RV park reservation at a park north of Houston in Dayton, TX for tomorrow night - some 380 miles. Then on Monday 480 miles to Kinsett, Arkansas.  Tuesday we drive 240 miles to Cape Camping in Cape Girardeau where we will stay while visiting brother Don and his wife Vicki.
Had planned to drive on Friday to Marengo, IA to spend time with family.  But, Phyllis' cousin Judy Heuer passed away and her funeral will be on Friday so we are now thinking of going to Clarinda on Thursday afternoon, attend the funeral on Friday and then drive to Cam's late Friday without the trailer and visit with them over Easter weekend.  Will see.

Later, Lynn

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

Saturday, March 25, 1978 - 48 years ago today

 72º here in La Feria, TX at 9:00 am Wednesday - predicted high of 90º; still dry as a bone!  Click on any photo to enlarge.

Dad, November 1963 at our mobile home in Omaha
My dad, Kermit Lester Miles, was born near Pana, Illinois, on September 6, 1904.  He passed away on Saturday, March 25,1978, in his farm house between Callaway and Oconto, Nebraska.  Dad grew up near Huron, South Dakota, and had come down to Custer County, NE in 1932 or 1933 to pick corn by hand - at one cent per bushel, plus room & board..  He met mom when he went into the Callaway Telephone office to call home and she was the "operator" at the time.

Dad in 1933




By March of 1978 Dad had been on the farm/ranch with an Oconto, NE address, about half-way between Oconto and Callaway, NE 31 years.  In 1947 he had helped move our house and barn some 7 miles from the ranchland out to a road only about a mile off Highway 40 that runs from near Kearney, NE, through Oconto and Callaway northwest to Arnold, NE.  Highway 40 was gravel at the time and the road that ran by our place was dirt, with a smattering of river gravel, I think.

At the start of that move, the landlord, James Cornish, had bought a small wooden chicken house, locating it up the hill a bit from where the house and barn eventually was moved to, and Dad spent many a night staying in the little building.

With four boys in the family and four boys in Jim Cornish's family, we all helped with the work on the farm, especially remember the haying crews and working cattle at "the ranch", the oriignal site of our house and barn.

By 1978 it was determined that PCA (Production Credit Association) was not willing to loan the partnership of Dad and my oldest brother Roger operating money to proceed with their row crop and cattle operation.  I believe the interest rates in the late 1970's were very high and much of agriculture was having trouble, moneywise.   A farm sale date was set for March 27, 1978, to sell the fair-sized cattle herd and farm equipment.  They were still on rented land where Dad lived.
Arial photo of our place in the 1970's



We lived near Clarinda, IA (about 45 miles east of Nebraska City, NE, and I planned on going out for the weekend to help Dad and Roger line up equipment for the sale the following Wednesday.  My younger brother, Darrell, flew in to Omaha from either Ohio or Florida where he was working for Cargill in their Accounting Department and I picked him up at the airport and we drove on out to the home place, surprising Mom & Dad as we had not told them Darrell would be coming.  I can't remember if this was on Friday afternoon or on Saturday morning.  

I recall on Saturday that Dad spent time haying the cattle with the John Deere tractor that had the FarmHand Loader on it.  This was to the west side of the buildings in the photo above.  There had been snow that hadn't melted where the machinery was to be displayed at the sale the next Wednesday and it was pretty muddy and we didn't do much with that.



At photographer's December 1950

1976 - Mom, Dad, Darrell, Louise, Lynn

1974 Dad with grandkids Michelle & Cameron



In the 1960's - back, Roger, Donald, Louise, Darrell,
Lynn.  in front, Dad Kermit & Mom Pearl

































Dad & Mom on their front steps in 1978


After supper that evening Dad sat at the living room table and was writing in his diary as he had done for years.  It was after 10:30 pm and Johnny Carson was on TV.  I heard him yell "Mom" or "Pearl" and looked over and he was slumped on the table.  Darrell came out of one of the bedrooms and we got Dad on the floor and the two of us did CPR on Dad as Mom called 911.  We did not get Dad to respond and when the ambulance had driven the 7 miles from Callaway they took him to the Callaway Hospital.  We followed in the car.  The doctor and nurses worked on him for some time, but finally came out and told us that they were unsussful in reviving him.

This was late Saturday night and the farm sale was scheduled for the following Tuesday.  With advertising done over many states, the cattle were beginning their calving, and the necessity to hold it as  scheduled on Tuesday.  Funeral was scheduled for Wednesday, the 28th of March, which is Phyllis' birthday.  She had stayed in Clarinda with our son and daughter, and she got her parent's car and drove out to the home place on Sunday and stayed until after the sale.  There was quite a crowd for the sale, and I recall being out within that crowd when I heard a couple men exclaiming "He just died on Saturday and they are already having his sale!"  I explained to them that the sale hd been scheduled, but Dad's heart attack had not been plannee.  Our son, Cameron was just 12 years old and daughter Michelle was 10 years old at the time.  I think it was Reverand Koelling (sp) came out to the house and visited with Mom & us, and held the funeral.

Dad was 73 years old.

Lynn
























Monday, March 23, 2026

The Pelican

 “A wonderful bird is the Pelican. His beak can hold more than his belly can. He can hold in his beak Enough food for a week! But I’ll be darned if I know how the hellican?” —Dixon Lanier Merritt



Short time left in the Valley

 79º here in La Feria, TX at 11 am Monday, predicted high of 89º

Saturday, March 21st we went to Progreso, MX to their annual Tourist Appreciation Day.  Big crowd.

Some got their photo taken with this frame

Lots of vendors along the first 5 blocks or so.





We picked up some meds at our usual pharmacy, they usually have orchids and this was no exception

At left is photo of my new wedding band.  I must tell the story...I got a simple band when we married 63 years ago.  I wore it up until late 1974 when I caught it on a nail while coming down a wooden ladder at the grain elevator we worked in.  It about took off my finger and I put it away.  When we sold the elevaator in 1994 Phyllis suggested I put it back on.  Well, up to that time I was a little heavy -- weighing in the 230+ lbs area.  By the time we retired in 2009 I was weighing around 210-215 lbs.  Starting about a year ago when I went on Mounjaro for my diabetis -- was around the 210 lbs mark.  Since then I have come down to the mid 175 lb. area and the ring had gotten rather loose.  Several times when washing in a public restroom it would slip off and I would grab it and put it back on.  When we got off our cruise in early December I had it on, but when we got back to our place here in La Feria I didn't have it.  I called the two places we had stopped to use the restroom on our drve back and left my name if it showed up.  Never got any callback, assumed it was gone. Now come forward to when the handle to the driver's inside door brook off--I had to remove the panel of the door to work on it.  I had a lot of stuff, including tire pressure guage, small tools and bug spray in the "drawer" at the bottom of the door, and there was the ring.  Guess it slipped off when we were driving and I had my arm down.  But, it was still so large it would slip off at anytime so I just quit wearing it.  Phyllis insisted on getting one in Mexico (a little less expensive, I presume, than here on the US side of the River) which does fit snug----so here it is.
Lot of colorful clothing


Near the stage area

Watching for a bit, the stage entertainment.

Stage with entertainment


Phyllis & Lisa

Lisa and Tom

Last evening we had Tom & Lisa Urban over for supper and a good visit.  Tom is Betty Schneider's son.  They bought Darlene Winslow's place and do a lot of cooking for the park when they are here.  Tom has relatives in Pizen, Czechia and will spend nearly three months over there August, Sept & Oct this year visiting relatives and hellping with some expansion in a bakery.  Tom does a lot of baking.  Lisa will visit him over there for a week or so.  The both of them have travelled quite extensively in Europe.





Six days until we pull out with the trailer heading north.  Right after we help perform the Cantata with orchestra at the 9:00 am service at First Methodist Church in Harlingen next Sunday.

Later, Lynn

On our way north from the Rio Grande Valley

 A cool 70º here near Dayton, TX (some 37 miles northeast of Houston) at 8:00 pm.  Cool breeze, not running AC and windows open in the trail...