Wednesday, November 20, 2024

Back in Kenwood from our 9-day vacation

67ยบ here in La Feria, TX at 9:45 am on Wednesday.

     Last week we had a very enjoyable vacation on board the Harmony of the Seas a Royal Caribbean cruise line ship.  We rode in one of two charter busses with Welcome Home Travel people from Harlingen to Sugarland, then to Galveston.  

Main dining on Deck 4 - fellow Welcome Home
people at next table - 94 in our group total
 Had not travelled with this group out of the Rio Grande Valley before and made a lot of new friends--many of them live here in the Valley full time.


3 Polka bands from around Texas

One of the "adult only" areas on ship

In main entertainment stage - Royal 


One of many cute little ones

Resting spot along the walking track

Resting spot along the walking track

One of 18 Life Boats, each with capacity of 367

Walking track

Lots and lots of good food!

At our Main Dining table at 5 pm

Of course, different towel art each night

Getting Ice Cream while on Coco Cay

Eating at Coco Cay

Eating, again, in main dining room on 4 deck

Kept track of our journey on TV in room

"Napkin Art" in main dining room

One of many swimming pools

One of many swimming pools

At breakfast in Main Dining on 3 deck

At breakfast in Main Dining on 3 deck

At breakfast in Main Dining on 3 deck

Performance of "Grease"

Performance of "Grease"

Ice Show

Ice Show

Ice Show

Dining companions at Main on Deck 4

Dining companions at Main on Deck 4

Watching our progress, speed, temp, etc.

At Cozumel 

At Cozumel 

At Cozumel 

Water Show

Breakfast on Main, deck 3

Breakfast in the Windjammer, Deck 15

Many balcony rooms facing the
interior

Lots of elevators, many exposed to interior

  

Thursday, November 7, 2024

"The Road Not Taken” -- critiqued and Robert Frost's life

 "The Road Not Taken” is among Frost’s most celebrated poems, yet it is widely misinterpreted, 

often taken as a simple ode to “following your own path.” In truth, the poem subtly critiques this notion. David Orr, in The Paris Review, described this misconception, pointing out: The poem’s speaker claims he will recount, someday, how he chose the less traveled road, yet he admits that the paths ‘equally lay / In leaves’ and ‘the passing there / Had worn them really about the same.’ Thus, the ‘less traveled’ road he plans to describe is actually just as traveled as the other. The two paths are indistinguishable.”                                                  

                     Frost originally wrote the poem as a playful jab at his friend Edward Thomas, who was famously indecisive during their walks, struggling to choose a path. In a New York Times review of Brian Hall’s 2008 biography, Fall of Frost, it was noted: “Whichever way they go, they’re sure to miss something good on the other path.” As for the “sigh” in the final stanza, it could suggest either regret or satisfaction. However, there is a significant contrast between the speaker’s present description of the paths and what he anticipates saying in the future. Frost’s biographer, Lawrence Thompson, recalls that Frost, before reading the poem aloud, once remarked, “You have to be careful with that one; it’s a tricky poem—very tricky,” hinting at its ironic undertones.  

               Thompson proposes that the narrator is someone who consistently expends energy regretting his choices, wistfully sighing over the appealing alternatives he declined. He also noted that when Frost introduced the poem, he often mentioned the speaker was inspired by Thomas, whom he described as “a person who, whichever road he went, would be sorry he didn’t go the other. He was hard on himself that way.” 

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.



Robert Frost was born on March 26, 1874, in San Francisco, where his father, William Prescott Frost, Jr., and his mother, Isabelle Moodie, had moved from Pennsylvania shortly after marrying. After the death of his father from tuberculosis when Frost was eleven years old, he moved with his mother and sister, Jeanie, who was two years younger, to Lawrence, Massachusetts. He became interested in reading and writing poetry during his high school years in Lawrence, enrolled at Dartmouth College in Hanover, New Hampshire in 1892 and, later, at Harvard University, though he never earned a formal degree.
Frost drifted through a string of occupations after leaving school, working as a teacher, cobbler, and editor of the Lawrence Sentinel. His first published poem, “My Butterfly,” appeared on November 8, 1894 in the New York newspaper The Independent.
In 1895, Frost married Elinor Miriam White, with whom he’d shared valedictorian honors in high school, and who was a major inspiration for his poetry until her death in 1938. The couple moved to England in 1912, after they tried and failed at farming in New Hampshire. It was abroad where Frost met and was influenced by such contemporary British poets as Edward Thomas, Rupert Brooke, and Robert Graves. While in England, Frost also established a friendship with the poet Ezra Pound, who helped to promote and publish his work.
By the time Frost returned to the United States in 1915, he had published two full-length collections, A Boy’s Will (Henry Holt and Company, 1913) and North of Boston (Henry Holt and Company, 1914), thereby establishing his reputation. By the 1920s, he was the most celebrated poets in America, and with each new book—including New Hampshire (Henry Holt and Company, 1923), A Further Range (Henry Holt and Company, 1936), Steeple Bush (Henry Holt and Company, 1947), and In the Clearing (Holt Rinehart & Winston, 1962)—his fame and honors, including four Pulitzer Prizes, increased. Frost served as a consultant in poetry to the Library of Congress from 1958–59. In 1962, he was presented the Congressional Gold Medal.
Though Frost’s work is principally associated with the life and landscape of New England—and, though he was a poet of traditional verse forms and metrics who remained steadfastly aloof from the poetic movements and fashions of his time—Frost is anything but merely a regional poet. The author of searching, and often dark, meditations on universal themes, he is a quintessentially modern poet in his adherence to language as it is actually spoken, in the psychological complexity of his portraits, and in the degree to which his work is infused with layers of ambiguity and irony.
In a 1970 review of The Poetry of Robert Frost, the poet Daniel Hoffman describes Frost’s early work as “the Puritan ethic turned astonishingly lyrical and enabled to say out loud the sources of its own delight in the world,” and comments on Frost’s career as the “American Bard”: “He became a national celebrity, our nearly official poet laureate, and a great performer in the tradition of that earlier master of the literary vernacular, Mark Twain.”
President John F. Kennedy, at whose inauguration Frost delivered a poem, said of the poet, “He has bequeathed his nation a body of imperishable verse from which Americans will forever gain joy and understanding.” And famously, “He saw poetry as the means of saving power from itself. When power leads man towards arrogance, poetry reminds him of his limitations. When power narrows the areas of man’s concern, poetry reminds him of the richness and diversity of his existence. When power corrupts, poetry cleanses.”
Robert Frost lived and taught for many years in Massachusetts and Vermont, and died in Boston on January 29, 1963.

Some history

 In the past, people used urine to tan animal skins. Families would collect urine in a pot and sell it to tanneries. If someone was extremely poor, they were referred to as "piss poor." Even worse off were those who couldn't afford a pot at all—they were considered the lowest of the low.

Consider this: when you're washing your hands and complaining about the water temperature, think about how things used to be. Here are some fascinating facts from the 1500s:
1. June Weddings: Most people got married in June because they took their yearly bath in May. By June, they still smelled pretty good. Brides carried bouquets of flowers to hide any lingering body odor, which is why carrying a bouquet during weddings is a custom today.
2. Baths and Babies: Baths consisted of a big tub filled with hot water. The man of the house had the privilege of using the clean water first, followed by other family members. Babies were bathed last. The saying "Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater!" originated from this practice.
3. Thatched Roofs and Animals: Houses had thatched roofs made of thick straw. Animals (like cats and mice) lived in the roof to keep warm. When it rained, the roof became slippery, leading to the saying "It's raining cats and dogs."
4. Dirt Floors and Canopy Beds: Floors were dirt, except for the wealthy. They had slate floors that became slippery in winter. To prevent slipping, they spread straw (thresh) on the floor. Canopy beds were invented to protect against bugs and other debris falling from the roof.
5. Eating Stew and Leftovers: People cooked in big kettles over the fire. They ate mostly vegetables and little meat. Stew was a common dish, and leftovers were left in the pot overnight. The rhyme "Peas porridge hot, peas porridge cold, peas porridge in the pot nine days old" reflects this practice.
6. Lead Poisoning from Pewter Plates: Wealthy individuals had pewter plates. However, the lead in pewter could leach into acidic foods, causing lead poisoning. Tomatoes, being acidic, were considered poisonous for about 400 years.
7. Bread and Social Status: Bread was divided by status. Workers got the burnt bottom of the loaf, the family got the middle, and guests received the top—the "upper crust."
8. Lead Cups and Knockout Combinations: Lead cups were used for ale or whisky. The combination of lead and alcohol could knock drinkers out for days.
9. Graveyard Shift and Dead Ringers: England faced a shortage of burial space. Coffins were reused, and sometimes scratch marks inside revealed that people had been buried alive. To prevent this, a string was tied to the corpse's wrist, leading to a bell above ground. The "graveyard shift" involved listening for the bell—someone could be "saved by the bell" or considered a "dead ringer."
And there you have it! History is anything but boring. ๐Ÿ˜Š

Wednesday, November 6, 2024

On Mark Twain

 Mark Twain held a pistol to his head.

But he couldn’t bring himself to pull the trigger.
So, he put down the pistol and picked up a pen…
Many textbooks portray Mark Twain as poised, self-assured, and composed.
However, the Twain described in writings from 1865 and 1866 is far from that man…
At this time, Twain was living in San Francisco and earning $100 a month writing 2,000-word columns, 6 days a week for a newspaper called the Territorial Enterprise.
The 29-year-old Twain was struggling immensely. He was drowning in debt. The local pawnshops owned nearly all his possessions.
In a letter from 1865, he wrote to his brother:
“If I do not get out of debt in three months – pistols or poison for one – exit me,”
And he nearly took the first option.
There are many stories about what exactly made him change his mind:
One story describes how his eyes met a bill for coal he had received. The wording on the bill was so peculiar for such a low sum of requested money that it made him do a double take. It supposedly brought about a chuckle and he reflected on the oddity of life, putting down his pistol.
Some accounts claim that when he brought the pistol to his head, he couldn’t bear to pull the trigger out of his thoughts of cowardice.
Whatever the truth may be, we do know that the great literary figure had some very dark days in his lonely San Francisco apartment…

Shortly after this incident, Twain hit his first home run. He finally leaned into his inclinations of humor with The Celebrated Jumping Frog of Calaveras County.
It was a humorous work and was published by the New York Saturday Press on November 18, 1865. It brought him his first taste of international fame.
And the rest is history!

USEFUL KNOWLEDGE:
- The Brightest days often come right after the darkest nights.
Life is very strange. In many ways, it is like a video game, in the sense that it is full of tests. Things get extremely hard in life and as long as you hang on and keep pushing, you will make a breakthrough and get to the next level. It's always hardest right before a significant breakthrough. Then things are great for a while but eventually, the pattern repeats itself. The tests vary in difficulty but they all push the individual to ascend to higher levels of consciousness and character.
This story of Twain’s dark days displays the idea perfectly. He was in just about the lowest place a person can be, yet he didn’t let go of himself and as a result, very quickly got his first big win.
I’m sure you can relate to this story in some way - reflecting on your own difficult times. Hopefully, the video game analogy provides you with a greater awareness of the pattern.
So, when things get dark, hold on, keep pushing and bright daylight will come soon enough.
Written by The Knowledge Archivist on Twitter

Saturday, November 2, 2024

In Rio Grande Valley for the winter

 86 degrees at our place in La Feria, Texas, with forecast of 89ยบ high and possible light scattered showers for today.

Arrived at our place Thursday about 3:00 pm. 


Was able to park trailer on empty place east of us where we can tote things in the back door directly to the kitchen.  Was told that Tommy, who lived in Raab's old place, has moved to relatives in Florida and his house is for sale.  He was having dementia problems for some time and not totally surprised at this.  Stiver's house doesn't appear opened, but Sharleen had told us she had sold it.  Pam Elanger's sisters had bought Pat & Lois Sumner's place and were to move here in June.  However, their house sold quicker than expected and they are here, staying in Pam & Bill's Travel Trailer and Sumner's are preparing to move, probably to Arlington, TX area where they have a daughter living, so the girls can move into Sumner's place..Photo taken out back dour of our house.


Plants in back yard
are doing fine!


Our site in New Braunfels, TX on Wednesday night was near, almost below Interstate 35.  Since we had a pull through site didn't have to unhook.  All their back-in sights you had to unhook. 

Didn't take photo of Tuesday night south of Ponca City, Oklahoma, but was out of town, off a state road and under trees by a river.  Very quiet back-in site and got some rest after fighting the high winds all that day.


   Speaking of winds, we were heading into high winds most of our 1,235 miles drive down here.


Discovered this rather large (30-40) wasps nest over where we were parking the pickup.  Was able to dispatch them with some spray.


Some of unloading the pickup.

Got all the insulation panels off the windows and stored for the winter in the overhead shelves in the shop area.





Flowers are all doing well here at our place.



Was nice to use the hot tub last night.  Our 25-year old hot tub in Clarinda sprung a leak a week or so before we packed up to come south.


Had a couple pretty
good sized limbs
come off our Ash
tree onto the garage
a couple days
before we left.
Got it cut up.













I am pretty sure the following is referring to the Southeast US, not South Texas.  Enjoy:

THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW IF YOU MOVE TO THE SOUTH.
1. A possum is a flat animal that sleeps in the middle of the road.
2. There are 5,000 types of snakes and 4,998 of them live in the South.
3. There are 10,000 types of spiders. All 10,000 of them live in the South, plus a couple no one's seen before.
4. If it grows, it'll stick ya. If it crawls, it'll bite cha.
5. Onced and Twiced are words.
6. It is not a shopping cart, it is a buggy!
7. Jawl-P? means: Did you all go to the bathroom?
8. People actually grow, eat, and like okra.
9. Fixinto is one word. It means I'm going to do something.
10. There is no such thing as lunch. There is only dinner and then there's supper.
11. Iced tea is appropriate for all meals and you start drinking it when you're two. We do like a little tea with our sugar. It is referred to as the Wine of the South.
12. Backwards and forwards means I know everything about you.
13. The word jeet is actually a question meaning, 'Did you eat?'
14. You don't have to wear a watch, because it doesn't matter what time it is, you work until you're done or it's too dark to see.
15. You don't PUSH buttons, you MASH em.
16. Y'all is singular. All Y'all is plural.
17. All the festivals across the state are named after a fruit, vegetable, grain, insect, or animal.
18. You carry jumper cables in your car for your OWN car.
19. You only own five spices: salt, pepper, Cajun seasoning, Tabasco, and ketchup.
20. The local papers cover national and international news on one page, but require 6 pages for local high school sports, motorsports, and gossip.
21. Everyone you meet is a Honey, Sugar, Miss (first name), or Mr (first name)
22. You think that the first day of deer season is a national holiday.
23. You know what a hissy fit is..
24. Fried catfish is the other white meat.
25. We don't need no dang Driver's Ed. If our mama says we can drive, we can drive!!!
26. You understand these jokes and forward them to your Southern friends and those who just wish they were from the South.
AND one more:
27. Why did the chicken cross the road? To show that stupid possum that it CAN be done!

Later, L C M








Back in Kenwood from our 9-day vacation

67ยบ here in La Feria, TX at 9:45 am on Wednesday.      Last week we had a very enjoyable vacation on board the Harmony of the Seas a Royal C...